Thursday, April 2, 2009

Stuck on you....

So my day started off gloomy yday... I woke up feeling unmotivated to do anything. If not bcos my efficient Profs. take attendance and it counts towards my final grade, I prolly would have skipped class. I turn on my lappy to check everything checkable (FB, e-mails, blogs, twitter...) and to also discover new blogs (I keep finding interesting blogs err'day :-)...I luv it!). In my quest, I found MissLove's blog and began reading her "Love letter for Pappy", ah! wat a way to express one's love; this babe has fallen head over o, gud for her.

So, I continue reading. Next thing, I hear the song "Stuck on you" by Lionel Richie playing from her blog playlist...and immediately I know I shd either hit the mute button or skip the song if Iwant to get thru the day in one piece. But I cldn't bring myself to do it, and as the song played on the memories attached to it were as vivid and clear as if they happened yesterday. It was the song he sang to me @ the kareoke, infront of everyone, friends and all. The tears began to flow; I manage to put myself together, afterall I had a whole day ahead of me.

An hour fifteen minutes later, am on the train and sitting across from me, a young couple. Both of them in their early to mid twenties, hand in hand reading the morning paper together, and talking ' bout wat they had planned for the day. Wetin na??? Dem send una to come haunt me this morning!!! I take the train regularly and I shd be used to this scene, but u know no matter hw many times u encounter it, for someone whose man is thousands of miles away, there are certain days when u jst can't handle it. This was one of those days! Damn, LDRs are evil! *sighs* but oh well I got into it with my eyes wide open.

Anyhoo, to help my mood, inbetween classes I went to therapy...RETAIL THERAPY!!! Yea, yea I know it doesn't fill the actual void I feel from missing my babie, and its only a temp. high but I needed it. And besides, I have a bday dinner coming up, so I used one stone to kill two birds...lol. Well, let's just say the session went well...and I came away with great deals, and got back to class in time; the benefit of having ur school 15mins away from Manhattan!

Well, dats it for now. Like I said before, I've discovered quite a number of beautiful, inspirational, enlightening, naughty, hilarious, spiritual, and self-discovering blogs. Aloted, RocNaija, Sexkitten, funms-funms, Verastic and a bunch of others that I can't remember right now. Thanks guys, everyone is so unique and I leave each blog with something new!

TGIF!!! Enjoy guys!
xoxo Miss Enigma!!!

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

LOL @ yr reaction to the young couple -- don't we all react the same way!!! Easy, time will pass and you and the Mr will see each other again aight!

Adaeze said...

nice one. See it from the opposite you're blessed to be missing someone! That means u have someone!
Ah, i want some retail therapy right now oh...

busybee said...

i LOVE shopping!!! like adaeze said, u have someone to miss! thats always a good thing.

jhazmyn said...

As they say...absence makes the heart grow fonder ....right? its just a function of time, n u n ur babie wud be the cause for another persons need for therapy..

jhazmyn said...

hang in there girl and have a blast this weekend

Miss Enigma said...

@DB- Lol.

@Adaeze- Hmmm...I've never thot of it dat way b4, thanks girl!

@Arewa- Dnt we all...lol, hpe ur week has been gud!

@Jhazmyn- U're ryt, everythng will wrkout in time; hve a great weekend too!

Thanks guyz!!!

Chookz said...

LDR's suck...
Had one briefly not sure I can do it again. Hopefully he's thinking about you too

Bibi said...

Awwww, poor you. Pele o! I know how you feel jare. Don't worry, retail therapy is there for you. lol

Anonymous said...

aaawww! I can imagine how u felt...I've never been a fan of LDRs and even though some work perfectly fine, it's just never been my thing and though I was away from my hubby 4 a year when I came to the UK 4 my masters, at least he visited 2ce and I went back home 1ce, so it wasn't too bad...hope u guys are united 4 good soon...