Tuesday, February 21, 2012

Thirsty Tuesdays

Hello Darlings!


Happy New Week! Hope everyone is having a great day so far.


Thank you for all your kind words on my last post about Our Anniversary. I appreciate!


I had a really good weekend, I got to hangout with my entire family of friends on Saturday for a friend's birthday dinner and after-party. It was the first time I was out partying this year and I had a good time. But came down with a cold the next day. Thank God Monday was a holiday, so I stayed indoors recuperating and sneezing like a sneeze machine. *sigh* 


So on my way out on Saturday, at the very last minute I decided to change my outfit because it was too predictable for me. Simple black dress, with a red blazer and red lip-stick and this year, I've sworn to step out my comfort zone a lil' bit and try new things. So I switched to denim shirt, short black flared skirt... only to get to the dinner and my really close friend/sister from another Mother arrives in a black dress and red blazer!!! I'm like this is why we are friends, our dress styles are sooo similar simply and nice but too darn predictable lol so glad I changed my mind last minute. Even in Naij during Christmas hols we ended up wearing the same outfit, same colors out one day and it was totally unplanned! *sigh* lol


Now I understand why some people prefer to not date within their circle of friends. It's not easy to see a babe you once liked, still like talking to other guys and you have to pretend like you don't notice, or that everything's great and you are not inwardly pained lol. Or when the guy you like, once liked, or your ex is chatting up another girl, and you have to pretend like the party is ohh soo great! And your having the time of your life when you really are not lol. The woes of dating...it ain't easy, but we all get over it with time.


Its funny how most times, people are able to give reasonable, level-headed relationship advice to their friends, co-workers etc, but when they find themselves in similar situations, they find it hard to apply what they've recommended to others. Most cases they know what action they shd take or what needs to be said/done but find it hard to actually do it. Matters of the heart can be paralyzing at times.


How old is too old to date? What's your limit?


Would you date someone whom you don't have any likes/fun-activities in common? And what's the one thing
  
The weather in NY this week is divine! 60 degrees in February?!?! Thank you Lord! Speaking of this city, have I told you all how ard it is to find a decent apartment on a budget? Chai! Odikwa very hard! But I'll find one in due time! Amen.


I just discovered Godiva Milk Chocolate...love it!!!


Aiight that's it folks! Have a great day everyone!


PS: The post title has nothing to do with the post lol I just didn't know what else to call it and I didn't want to call it Random :) 


Hugs & Kisses,
Miss Enigma!


   

4 comments:

Dame Sting said...

"Its funny how most times, people are able to give reasonable, level-headed relationship advice to their friends, co-workers etc, but when they find themselves in similar situations, they find it hard to apply what they've recommended to others. Most cases they know what action they shd take or what needs to be said/done but find it hard to actually do it."

THIS!!!! Absolute gospel.

doll said...

come and continue o!

I am learning. LOL

NikkiSho said...

i have a friend like that...COUNTLESS times we end up wearing the same or almost the same outfit when we meet without informing each other before the occasion...we just start laughing.

TemiY said...

haha, the title did throw me off..

ditto @ Dame Sting's comment tho..