Thursday, October 9, 2008

Man- Drama!!!

...Never have I been in such a dilemma before. Normally when you hear stories about someone having feelings for two people and not being able to make a decision...I usually think oh how hard can it be to make a decision. You simply just go with the one whom you have stronger feelings for, its that easy.

My fellow bloggers...its not. Just about three weeks ago some guy who I once knew during my first year in Uni. suddenly reappeared in my life through the wonderful world of FB. Take note that its been three years since we last saw each other or spoke, and so we begin to catch up and generally chat daily. To cut the long story short, Bros still has feelings, and I do too. At first I thought it was just the euphoria of finding each other again after so long, but ummm...its getting to be more than that. We talk everyday and he claims to miss me and all that gooey stuff.

I know u r wondering what exactly is my dilemma; well I have a boyfriend of three years plus who totally loves me, and to whom I mean the world and I love him, as cliche as that may sound I do. But this reappearing Bros just seems to be a whole new flava, he says the nicest things and by nice I dnt mean cheesy,corny lines...
Anyways, he wants to see how it goes...which in translation means, I want to have a relationship with u, and which means I would have to end a 3yr relationship.

...Truth is I do know what to do but I'm finding it difficult to do it. I should end my shenanigans with this Bros and focus on my relationship, but I'm so luving every minute of it that I just don't know how. So please if anyone has any solutions kindly post 'em up or if u have questions about this pls ask. PS: Both boyfriend and Bros are in Nigeria and I'm in Amerix.

Gotta go work on a paper so I'll blog la'er...muahz!

3 comments:

9ja's OT said...

i think you should be careful of these boys that just come into your life and want it all.

wait i got some questions to ask you
did u telll the new guy that you have a BF?
and why after 3 years, do u feel that u can just leave a guy u have being dating for that long for someone else's sweet words?????

dont be in a rush to dump or karma might just be at that door!!

i hope i did not sound harsh

UnderCover07 said...

...Harsh? Not at all o. Maybe I need a hot dose of reality to wake me up from this fantasy that I'm in. Neways thanx.

Dabizniz said...

Not to be intruding though but it'd be nice to try and get what you are missing from present BF. You know how people always say the right things when they are in "razzle mode"